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Jermaine - who has written 7 posts on That Black Girl Site.

Ask The Married Guy Jermaine E. Spradley is 25 years old, college educated, gainfully employed, and happily married.  In this blog, he'll use his past relationship experience, understanding of women and wisdom gained in marital bliss as the background from which he imparts advice.  The consummate "friend", he's always been the guy women go to for a real man's perspective.  Blunt, honest, compassionate and understanding, he's heard it all, seen it all, and done it all (well, maybe he hasn't done it all, per se) in his short time on Earth. So whether you're married, dating, searching or single, whether you're younger, older, hopeful, or hopeless, here, on ThatBlackGirlSite.com, you can take advantage of this rare chance to – Ask The Married Guy 

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Cohabitating Before Marriage – Life Saver or Death Sentence


Cohabitating Before Marriage – Life Saver or Death Sentence

One of the most common questions I receive from men and women who’ve been in a relationship for a while and are considering marriage is: Should we live together before we get married? The idea of living together before getting married seems to be growing more and more in popularity. Proponents of the idea list the [...]

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Do All Men Cheat Part 2


Do All Men Cheat Part 2

Now that we've gotten to know each other a little better, let's continue our discussion on fidelity. Imagine this scenario: You've been dating a guy for 3 or 4 months and the two of you are just starting to contemplate making the step toward commitment.

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Why Am I Still Single?


Why Am I Still Single?

Jane is in her mid to late twenties, educated, career oriented, driven in both personal and professional endeavors, independent and humble.

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Is ‘Married’ The New ‘Single’?


Is ‘Married’ The New ‘Single’?

Over the past couple of years, more and more of my personal friends have taken the step to either get married or get engaged.

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Man-Sharing, Misogyny, and the Unintentional Genius of Flavor of Love


Man-Sharing, Misogyny, and the Unintentional Genius of Flavor of Love

I know that for many people, the mere image of Flavor Flav at the top of this post caused noses to be turned up, eyes to roll, and mouths to snicker at what will go down in history as, quite possibly, the single greatest example of American absurdity in television history.

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Letting Go


Letting Go

Recently, a good friend of mine asked me following: 
How do you know when it's time to let go of a long-term relationship?

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Do All Men Cheat?


Do All Men Cheat?

On three separate occasions over the past 3 weeks, I've found myself engaged in conversation, with women, surrounding the myth of male fidelity.

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Do All Men Cheat?
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