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The Tequista’s Take on Eyelashes


The Tequista’s Take on Eyelashes

Technology and science are not solely limited to electronics and computer equipment. It surrounds us in every aspect of our lives. They can make life easier or more difficult, depending on how accepting you are of them. This time around I want to talk about a topic that is very near and [...]

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What’s On Your Relationship Resume?


What’s On Your Relationship Resume?

Image.  So much in our society revolves around how we look to others; our physical attractiveness, what clothes we wear, the type of cars we drive, the homes we live in, who our friends are, what we do for a living, and how much money we make.  We place an inordinate amount of value on [...]

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Embracing Our Differences: What I Learned From a “Scary Little Black Girl”


Embracing Our Differences: What I Learned From a “Scary Little Black Girl”

When the responses poured in, I braced myself for what I knew would inevitably occur: judgment. I’m a blogger, so I know that each time I share something, especially something related to my family, I open myself to the perspectives of others; some pleasant, some well-meaning, and others, well…honest, if nothing else. I [...]

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Meet the Tequista (And Find Out If You’re One Too)


Meet the Tequista (And Find Out If You’re One Too)

I’ve always had a passion for technology. No one believes me when I share this. Who would think that a woman who has forged her career in the beauty and fashion industries would even care about the processing speed of a laptop? I do admit that my interest goes beyond the technical [...]

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Diary of a Control Freak: A Lesson in Forgiveness


Diary of a Control Freak: A Lesson in Forgiveness

Today I woke up with an unfamiliar feeling. Stronger than desire, I felt the need to go to church. For most of my life, I was involved in the church. Not only was I in Catholic school for over 14 years, but my mother was a devoted parishioner for most of her life. [...]

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Post Valentine’s Day Reflections: Was It A Show Or Tell?


Post Valentine’s Day Reflections: Was It A Show Or Tell?

Valentine’s Day provides a platform to express love to the special person in our lives. It offers us the opportunity to dedicate a day to giving more of ourselves and show appreciation for the joy our partner brings into our lives; a day dedicated to stepping outside of our normal routine and celebrate the [...]

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The Diary Of A Control Freak: The Mouse Who Eats My Cheese


The Diary Of A Control Freak: The Mouse Who Eats My Cheese

I’ve always viewed my father’s advice as an instrument to inspire fear and blind obedience in me. As I matured, I realized that there were some kernels of truth in his ignorant rants. One thing he always said to me was “That person you think is your friend is really the mouse who eventually [...]

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The Gangster vs. The Gentlemen: What Kind Of Man Do We Want Now?


The Gangster vs. The Gentlemen: What Kind Of Man Do We Want Now?

The results are in: Good guys do NOT always finish last. I meet this guy once—nice looking, decent job. He opened doors, complimented my appearance and checked in on me periodically throughout the day. Then one day he told me about his past. He said he used to hang in the streets, heading down the wrong [...]

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Diary of a Control Freak: The Other Woman


Diary of a Control Freak: The Other Woman

I always told myself that I would never fall in love with a man who has been divorced, let alone one with children. It’s too much of a hassle trying to perform for everyone and you are always left feeling like the “other woman”. You have to be extra nice to the child [...]

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Love, Commitment & Why We Need To Think Differently


Love, Commitment & Why We Need To Think Differently

When we say we’re committed to someone what does that mean? For most of us, we believe that once we enter into a commitment, a promise is made that requires follow-through on an agreement between two people. Once we establish this agreement, we can plan our future based upon this certainty. We take the “sweet [...]

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